I'll start with just a little history here. About 7 years ago I seperated from my husband. At the time we had been together about 11 years and had two wonderful boys. Steven, the oldest and Isaiah, the youngest. When we seperated we did our best to keep things civil. He didn't want to be a part time father and also was afraid he could never make it if he had to pay child support. I, on the other hand, had never lived alone. Had never had a job for very long because I stayed home to take c...